Why Men Pull Away

I just saw an ad titled, "Why Men Pull Away," hinting at the hidden secret to heal repeated heart-break. There wasn't any explanation or description, they just want you to click on the link and find out the answer to this "mystery." But why not try to really answer this question instead of compensating for it? Let's start at the source and stop trying to redirect the blame for men's action onto the women for something they did or failed to do. Let's call men to account. Let's stop excusing men's irresponsibility. Let's stop being okay with women being treated as anything less than God's beautiful creation. The honest truth is, too many men are selfish and immature, so they cannot even begin to grasp what it means to pursue a woman (thus leaving women to the task of this displaced duty), and women don't seem to realize that their individual worth is of a much higher value than what is indicated by the way men often treat them.

Sure, there are things people can always improve about themselves, especially in selfless consideration of the other person. But there needs to be a healthy and realistic understanding of true self-worth before any consideration is ever given to any sort of "solutions." If we start there, at that bare minimum with no concessions, then we'll begin to understand that the answers we seek from the world to mend our broken, weary hearts will never satisfy. In their eyes, you'll never be good enough. Let's turn to God and who He says we are: meticulously and wonderfully crafted, made in His image. If a man can see that, he's not going to be able to pull away.